However, I'd like to address a particular blog post I came across recently: Warning: Rant Enclosed
The Church doesn't need to add to that weight as well.
Ruth, how can you say that my reluctance to move forward in a relationship puts me "in the loser column with a capital L"?
I'm like any other human being--I still long for the togetherness and fulfillment that a marriage relationship brings. My marriage ended badly; can you blame me if I think twice before swimming again? How many other men struggle just like your sister?
Just because I may reserve myself because of recent history does not mean that I need to "grow a pair."
I understand how unworthy for a mate that I am. Further, I also understand that I could never be worthy on my own. I am a sinner (Rom. 3:23), and I could never make myself a righteous man of God (Rom. 3:10).
There is only one who can do that. It is Christ, and Christ alone:
“And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses ...” (Col. 2:13, ESV)
I'm not interested in making myself worthy of a mate. I'm interested in the change that Christ can bring about in me. If that makes me worthy of a mate in the long run, wonderful.
Until then, please keep your peeves about men who lack initiative to yourself.
Blessings,
A man trying to heal.
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